please help if there any one out ther who likes to help someone for christmas who is really in need i am asking not for my self but know someone who really needs help this man and his son has lost so much this year of 2008 and left very depressed. he lost his wife on feburary who died at his feet at 4:30a.m. she had been sick for a long time but not expected to die at this moment.they just had started buying their home and she lived 1 and half months after they bought it. she was the one who had always paid the bills and the husband is now behind on everything because he didnt know all of what they owed. he has a water shut. and nothing left to give his son or even christmas dinner. the boy is 16 years old. everyone no matter how old likes something on christmas day even if its just something to eat for christmas dinner he is unable to work and the son still in school. when he lost his wife he lost a income to. if someone can help in anyway please contact me. i know he has a hard with even personal items wash powder toliet paper dish soap bleach deodorant shampoo ect please help him